Inner Wisdom – Ruthann M. Wilson

Change happens in a moment, but transition is where most of the real work takes place.

Change and transition are often spoken about as if they are the same, but they are not. Change is the event. Transition is the process.

Change can happen in a moment: a decision, a loss, a new beginning, an ending you did or didn’t choose. Transition is everything that unfolds after the moment of change. It’s the internal movement, the reorientation, the intentional work of finding your footing again.

Transition is the space between where you are and where you’re going. It’s the gap, the part that feels uncertain, disorienting, or stretched. It’s also the part that grows you.

This in between place can feel tricky because it asks something of you.
It asks for honesty.
It asks for patience.
It asks for a willingness to step into what is unfamiliar.

If you’re in transition, don’t be discouraged. You’re not behind. You haven’t lost your way. You’re moving through the very process that makes growth possible.

Let the gap be a place of learning and growing into the next chapter.

What may help steady you in this space

✦ noticing what feels uncertain
✦ acknowledging what has changed
✦ allowing yourself to not have answers yet
✦ naming what is shifting internally
✦ giving yourself grace to be where you are
✦ trusting that growth is happening even when it’s not visible
✦choosing one small step, not the perfect step, the honest one based on where you are now

Reflective Prompt

What is shifting in you as you move through this time of transition?

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Warmly,
Ruthann