28-day practice – Ruthann M. Wilson

There’s something tender about the first weeks of a new calendar year, the quiet hope, the subtle pressure, the sense that you should be further along than you are. But beginning again, as shared in this reflection, doesn’t require a grand gesture. It simply asks you to return to yourself as a way forward.

January often arrives with expectations to set goals, make resolutions, reinvent your life. But the truth is, most of us don’t need reinvention. We need a moment to pause and reconnect, quietly checking in before planning or moving forward.

Beginning again is not about fixing yourself or becoming someone new. It is about returning to what matters most and letting that guide your next step, a way forward rooted in what is true for you right now, rather than external pressure or expectation.

It is about noticing where you have drifted, where you feel stretched thin, or where you have lost your rhythm, and gently returning to what steadies you.

This is the heart of practice, small, honest returns that build clarity and momentum over time.

Beginning again is the practice of coming back to yourself with honesty and without judgment. It is choosing presence over pressure to rush ahead. It is acknowledging where you are right now and taking one small step toward what matters in this new chapter.

Beginning again does not erase what came before. It integrates it. It lets you begin where you are as a foundation for moving forward.

When you allow yourself to begin again, you stop waiting for the right moment and start moving from the moment you are in.

This practice creates room inside. It softens urgency. It invites clarity. And it reminds you that you can return again and again and again.

Beginning again is how you build a life that feels aligned, not through force, but through the rhythm and sacredness of returning to yourself.

Beginning again can be simple, gentle, and deeply grounding. Here are a few ways to pause, reconnect, and begin again:

Notice your whole self. Where are you right now physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually? What is true in this moment?

Name what is true. Without judgment, acknowledge what you are carrying or avoiding.

Honor your values. Identify one value you want to honor and let it inform what you do next.

Choose one small next step. Not the perfect step, the honest one based on where you are right now.

Return often. Beginning again is not a single moment. It is a practice of intentionally returning to what steadies you each time you drift from your values, your rhythm, your truth, your faith, and the way you want to move through the world.

Reflective Prompt

Where in your life are you longing to begin again, and what is one small, honest step you can take from where you are right now?

Let it be gentle. Let it be yours.

Beginning again is not a reset. It is a return, a way of reconnecting and choosing to anchor your steps in what is true for you right now. Each time you come back, you strengthen your capacity to live with intention, clarity, and ease.

If you feel called to deepen this work, you’re welcome to explore the 28-day practice for Beginning Again.

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Affirmation for the month
I begin again by returning to what is true in me.

To returning to what steadies you

Warmly,
Ruthann

Clearing creates the space where new light can enter. This opening is the threshold. Let this be a gently crossing.

Earlier this month, I shared Finishing Strong as a practice of looking back at what has been and forward to what could be. At its heart, it is a practice of reflection: honoring progress, celebrating resilience, completing what calls for closure, and opening space for what is new. Clearing complements that work.

Reflection helps us recognize and honor what has shaped us. Clearing makes space for what’s next. Together, they offer a grounded way to close the year with care and intention.

Clearing reminds us that beginnings are thresholds: a chance to release what no longer serves and create space for what is true now. Making room is not about adding more; it’s about accessing what’s already present and opening space through intentional release. Physical clearing becomes the doorway, a tangible way to create space for what is true in this moment.

As the year closes, clutter, whether physical, emotional, or digital, can weigh us down. Clearing is an act of self-care, a way of tending to yourself and your environment. It makes room for new habits, priorities, and intentions to take root. When we clear, we create room for clarity, energy, and renewal.

Simple Ways to Begin:

Choose one area to clear (e.g., closet, desk, inbox, calendar)
Pair clearing with intention: What am I making space for?
Use a simple framework: Keep what still serves you in your life right now. Release what no longer supports who you are or what you need. Carry Forward what represents who you are becoming in your next chapter. Name it with intention so it has a clear place in what comes next.

Clearing is an act of self-care, a practice of release that opens space for what’s next. What you release matters as much as what you carry forward.

Last week, I cleared a dresser. As I moved through each drawer, I asked myself: What still serves me and represents who I am becoming? What no longer supports who I am? What do I want to carry forward into the next chapter?

Some items stayed, some were released, and a few were named with intention to carry forward. In that process, the dresser became more than furniture. It became a threshold, a tangible marker of transition. Each drawer offered a choice: to honor what had been, to release what no longer fit, and to make space for what is true in the chapter ahead.

Clearing Prompt

What is one thing can you clear to create space for the chapter ahead?

If you feel called to deepen this work, you’re welcome to explore Clearing: A 28-Day Practice of Making Room for What Is True Now. It is a gentle, 28-day practice to help you release what no longer fits and create space for clarity, ease, and alignment. This practice is evergreen, with many people choosing to begin during seasonal transitions such as spring and fall.
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Thank you for pausing here. If my writing has offered meaningful insight or sparked a shift in you, I would be honored to hear what stayed with you.

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May you honor what was and clear space for what’s next

All the best,
Ruthann